The House is Empty, Now What? Embracing the Freedom of Empty Nesthood
Hey there, fabulous Empty Nesters!
So, the nest is now empty, and you're probably wondering, "Now what?"
Well, let me tell you, the possibilities are E N D L E S S! It's time to reclaim your time, your space, and your sense of self. Let's explore the exhilarating journey of empty nesthood together and discover the joys that await.
You are no longer an unpaid Uber driver: Ah, the days of shuttling the kids to and fro, here, there and everywhere in between, are finally behind you. No longer do you have to hurry up…and wait. Now, you have the freedom to reclaim your time and energy. Say goodbye to chauffeur duty and hello to spontaneous adventures and leisurely outings.
Tip: Use your newfound freedom to explore new hobbies or activities that bring you joy. Whether it's joining a dance class (psst…pole dancing will help reclaim your sexiness), enjoying a leisurely stroll in the park or simply sitting in your local Starbucks and enjoying your favorite drink, embrace the freedom to do what makes your heart sing.
You can now be your own chef: With the kids out of the house, you have full reign over the kitchen. Say goodbye to picky eaters and hello to culinary freedom! Experiment with new recipes, indulge in gourmet ingredients, or treat yourself to dinner at your favorite restaurant guilt-free.
Tip: Take a cooking class to learn new techniques and cuisines or host a dinner party for friends and family to showcase your culinary skills. While you’re at it, have a wine tasting to learn what wines pair well with the new dishes you learning to make.
You can sit down and rest anytime you want: Ah, the sweet luxury of uninterrupted relaxation. When was the last time you had that? With the house to yourself, you can finally take that well-deserved break you have certainly earned. Curl up with a good book, listen to your favorite music, or simply bask in the blissful silence.
Tip: Create a cozy relaxation space in your home with comfortable furniture, soft lighting, and soothing decor. Treat yourself to a plush throw blanket (you know, that soft, cozy white blanket you’ve always wanted but didn’t buy it because you knew what the outcome would be) and a selection of scented candles to create the perfect ambiance for relaxation.
Reconnect with your partner: This is THE best time for you and your spouse, partner, significant other, whomever you cozy up to. Now that the kids are out of the house, it's the perfect time to reconnect with your partner and nurture your relationship. Plan romantic date nights, weekend getaways, or simply enjoy quiet evenings together at home.
Tip: Surprise your partner with a spontaneous picnic in the park or plan a weekend getaway to a romantic bed and breakfast. Take the time to rediscover each other and deepen your connection. Together, make a list of all the things you want to do and start making plans to enjoy each other in a bigger way.
Explore new passions and interests: With the extra time and freedom on your hands, why not explore new passions and interests? Whether it's learning a new language, taking up gardening, or pursuing a creative hobby, now is the perfect time to indulge in activities that ignite your soul.
Tip: Join a hiking group or outdoorsy group, start a book club with friends or a writing club to write your own book, go to a jazz concert. Embrace the opportunity to discover new talents and interests.
Remember, this is your time to shine brightly and embrace the freedom and possibilities that empty nesthood brings. You’ve dedicated the past years to being fully present for your family. Now, it’s your time. This is the beginning of a new stage in your life. Embrace each moment with gratitude and excitement, knowing that the best is yet to come.
With love and empowerment,
Your fellow empty nester...♥️